If this resonates with you, then set up a courtesy (free) 30 minute appointment with me and I will offer my guidance on how to design your personal exploration and answer any questions you might have.
All my sessions are now online via Zoom or Facetime.
I no longer offer in person session.
Guided by your longing and my experience I will help you design experiments that will take you to your heart’s desire grounded in safety.
I have frequently worked with women and couples who are seeking to explore opening up to their bodies while staying deeply connected with their hearts. This often requires heartfelt dialogue. Others simply wish to go deeply into the pleasure the body has to offer, and through that exploration find new pathways into our ability to enjoy life.
One of the most important aspects of this work is authenticity.
Sessions are on line only. After 17 years of hands on work it is time for me to offer just my knowledge and wisdom.
On a very very rare occasion I will open an exception for an in person session.
I also offer remote coaching sessions via Zoom or FaceTime at $150/H.
For the rare exception of an in person session the cost is $300/H
I started my sacred intimacy practice in 2006 and I have lead more than 200 retreats on personal growth and sexuality.
People come to this work for many reasons, you may want to explore in a particular way and just have never had the chance (or were not allowed) to do so. Or you have already begun your journey elsewhere and now you are ready to take the next step in a conscious setting.
Maybe you had an experience that left you blocked or shut down. In order to reclaim your full excitement for life, you need a safe compassionate space so you can flourish again.
Or you might find it difficult to figure out boundaries, for yourself or others, and you are left in a cloud of confusion and situations that later you regret. Together we can listen, step by step, to what is needed for the body, mind and spirit to feel safe, secure and connected.
Some find themselves in control in most of their life and what is needed is a time and place where someone else is in charge and making choices in service of their pleasure and desire. I provide a space where one can learn to surrender or experience losing control.
Many learn early on to be ashamed of bodies, sex, and even our fantasies. This is a safe place to express and explore those fears and desires.
No matter what the reason, all who come find a safe, respected, compassionate caring environment where vulnerability is welcomed and embraced.
Have a question about the sessions I provide? Send me an email to schedule a free consultation, and we'll be happy to get back to you with a time to talk.
Livingston Manor, New York 12758, United States
“My work with Cristian has helped me learn to stay connected to my body while experiencing more and more pleasure. I trust him. He creates a safe setting so that I can experiment and take risks but remain present and in my body. I am grateful for the opportunity to do this unique work with him so that I can grow and heal.”
“Cristian is a brave sacred intimate, willing to jump in with intense eroticism in a way that is very exciting and freeing for a woman. He has the ability to make you feel totally desirable, even while holding a container of deeper meaning. That alone can be a rare and delicious healing from a handsome man. But beyond his sheer sexiness he has the capacity to follow you (or lead you) into deeper psychic/erotic territory and hold a mirror for you in a way that is simply impossible with a romantic partner.
“Before working with Cristian my heart was closed to love and my body was cut off from pleasure. I felt broken. Cristian opened his beautiful heart and body and gently led me on a tender, erotic journey of healing and discovery. Cristian possesses a divine knowing of the precise ingredients required for a woman to feel safe so that she can continue to open. He loved me back to myself and I am truly grateful to fully embody the divine, juicy, sensual woman that I yearned to be. ” – Joanne, NYC
For centuries men have had an entire industry devoted to their desire. And the best erotic providers have elevated pleasure to an art form, capable of nourishing and inspiring their clients to a depth that touches Spirit. His offering is heretofore unheard of as a service for women, and it’s about time we had access to this extraordinary quality of sexy care!” — Christina SF
“I have known Cristian over many years. I’ve watched him unfold in his personal and professional journey and know that he brings the greatest level of integrity, clarity, skill and intention to his healing work. With a fierce heart, a sensuous body, a supple mind, a courageous spirit, and perhaps an impish soul, he brings a depth and breadth that few will know in their lifetime. And so he arrives honestly to the work of helping others find their way to a full, joyful, erotically, engaged embrace of their lives, their bodies, their relationships and the world. In my opinion, working with Cristian is well worth the risk. You will, no doubt, discover something new that rests inside your own heart and soul.” — K.C. Massachusetts
“One of the first things I noticed about Cristian is the fluidity and grace with which he moves. He looks comfortable in his body and appears comfortable with his own power. That translates into his work. Cristian approaches his work with sensitivity and takes care when he is working with others. He has allowed me, in our work, to make the decision to go there. Or not. At the same time, he is more than willing to push an edge when he feels an opportunity to do so. Gently. Repeatedly. And he is capable of building on the energy that is created…and holding it. While I decide. All of this, combined with his willingness to share what he knows, translates into a powerful experience.” – Ruth Boston
Money exchanged in legal personal services for this appointment is simply for time, companionship, and coaching. Nothing else is ever offered nor implied. Anything that may or may not occur is a matter of personal choice and personal preferences between two or more consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for, nor is it requested to be contracted for in any manner. No fees will ever be accepted for illegal activity.
Services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either: (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) Solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.