I am eager to work with anyone who is willing to learn how to open body, mind and spirit to all that life has to offer.
Guided by your longing and my experience we will design experiments that will take you to your heart’s desire.
The transformative power of pleasure is the tantric principle that informs all my sacred intimate work. We often feel afraid of painful emotions and sensations, but in the end I believe we are most afraid of our own ability to experience deep pleasure.
We are often faced with two choices – fear or love – in the end I want to move toward the path of an open heart.
I work with singles and couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities.
I have frequently worked with women and couples who are seeking to explore opening up to their bodies while staying deeply connected with their hearts and souls. This often requires heartfelt dialogue. Others simply wish to go deeply into the pleasure the body has to offer, and through that exploration we find new pathways into their ability to enjoy life – body and soul. If you are not sure what it is you are longing for, let’s start a conversation and take a look at the possibilities together.
Each session is unique. Even when planned ahead we always deal with what is present in the moment. One of the most important aspects of this work is authenticity. We all need to be in alignment and with a full “yes” to what we are going to do.
We will discuss where you are in your journey, and what your boundaries, desires and needs are. Sometimes this involves touching on history or current events. Sacred Intimacy is not therapy, however it is a place where healing and learning can happen.
I believe that how we live, address and navigate our sexuality is a reflection of how we address and navigate our lives in general.
What I offer…
Some people come for one session and learn or get what they were looking for and return a year or two later. Some do a few sessions over a period of a month or two or over a few years.
The number of sessions is limited to 10 to support you in getting focused on what your goals are. Some get all they need and wanted in one session others need a slower pace and need more. There is no right formula.
After 2 or 3 session either one can choose to end if we feel is not the right fit. If we get to the limit of 10 sessions and there is a need for more then we could discuss that possibility.
Sessions might look like….
Bathing, sharing food together, full body massage, breath-work, Tantric coaching, meditation, wrestling, sensation play, power and surrender or just being held is how our time might evolve. In each case, for me it is always about being in service of your pleasure and healing. Together, we can choose what would be the best experiment for you at this moment in your life. And one thing of utmost importance is to respect each other’s boundaries and needs.
Where do sessions take place?
Sessions can be arranged at my studio near Youngsville NY in the Catskills Mountains, 2 hours northwest of New York city. I can also travel across the US and Canada, with special arrangements, please know that I only agree to travel to you under very special circunstances.
Here at my home and temple we have a floor dedicated to clients and workshops with 3 bedrooms, full bath, kitchen, deck,out door shower and hot tub. We also have a Log Cabin next door with 2 bedrooms, full kitchen and bath. Ideal for more privacy between sessions.
For new clients the first session will be 1½ hours which includes 30 to 45 minutes on the phone prior to meeting to make sure it will be a good fit for all of us.
The cost of sessions at my temple is $200/hr. For sessions in the studio in NYC the rate is $250/hr and for sessions in your private residence or a space of your choice the rate is $350/hr plus expenses. The cost for long term work is negotiated in person.
Please note that I only come to the NYC studio once every 6 or 8 weeks.
The possibilities of full day and overnight session are also possible.